Christmas shopping and not fitting in because I am from Utah

Pushing and shoving is how New Jersey people shop. They have a mission and they do not care how they get it done. The funny thing is that they push you while you are in line, looking at something, or minding your own business and then they have the nerve to tell (yell) "excuse me" like it was your fault. People on Utah don't shove you and then blame you for it but that is how Jerseyians role.